How To Use Bad Boy Tactics To Seduce Women

Hey Dean,





There's this girl that I've liked for a LONG time. Two weeks ago her boyfriend broke up with her. We were hanging out a few nights ago, and I finally built up the courage to say to her, "Hey, in all honesty, would you ever date a guy like me?"





She told me, "Well, honestly...you're too nice. I like assholes. I know that sounds bad, but it's the truth."





I had no idea how to answer that. I just played it off like I was joking, and wasn't really into her, but inside I felt crushed.





I guess it's true what they say: "nice guys finish last." I can't figure this out, Dean - why girls always seem to go for guys who are liars and assholes, while nice guys like me get left out in the cold.





I hope you have some good advice on this...





- Vincent, California





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Dean Cortez here. Before I got good with women and mastered this "game," I used to be a classic example of a Nice Guy.





And when I think about how many girls I COULD have had sex with...but didn't, because my ass-backwards "Nice Guy" approach messed everything up...I want to kick myself!





In the past, when I liked a girl I always made myself available to her. I'd chat with her on the phone, or on the Internet, for as long as she wanted to. If she wanted to meet up and do something, I'd drop whatever I was doing and go see her. If she was having problems with whatever douche bag she was currently sleeping with, I'd listen to her and try to be supportive.





The bottom line was, instead of working on making her feel SEXUAL ATTRACTION towards me, I acted like her "friend" who didn't have any other agenda. I tried to act as if I wasn't like "those other guys."





Of course, the whole time I was pretending to be "Mr. Nice Guy," all I could think about was getting her naked and banging her in every possible position...





I made the big mistake that a lot of guys make - thinking that building a FRIENDSHIP first was going to get me sex later.





But as you probably know, it never works out this way. The guy keeps suffering in the "Friend Zone" until one of two things happens (and both outcomes suck):





1. One night he finally "works up the courage" to tell her how he really feels - and she totally shoots him down.





2. She gets into a relationship with another guy who doesn't want her "Nice Guy" friend hanging around. So, she stops hanging out him completely.





(Hey, if you were dating a girl, would you want her "Nice Guy" buddy hanging around her all the time hoping to get in her pants? Of course not, you'd tell your girl to kick him to the curb.)





Look, I want to clear up some misperceptions about Nice Guys and Bad Boys - because the truth is, "Nice Guys" really aren't as sweet and honest as they like to say they are.





In fact, Nice Guys lie MORE than Bad Boys do!





Think about it...





When a Nice Guy is hanging out with a woman he is HOPING to hook up with, everything he does is a lie! The whole "friendship" he is building with the girl is phony. He just wants to get her into bed! He is using this friendship as a TACTIC to try to get what he wants.





Unfortunately, it's a lousy tactic. It doesn't work. And don't think you're fooling the girl: she knows she's sexy, she knows you're not gay, and so she knows you want to sleep with her.





She knows what the Nice Guy is REALLY after. But she's never going to give it to him, because he isn't demonstrating any of the qualities that she CRAVES in a man.





He's showing weakness instead of confidence.





He's showing that he NEEDS to spend as much time as possible with this girl, instead of being a guy with a full social life and OTHER options.





(Remember, women want a man who is wanted by other women! They are competitive as hell!)





Bad Boys DO have these qualities that women are PROGRAMMED to chase. When Bad Boys talk to women, they behave in a flirty, sexual, masculine way.





I have a friend who is total Alpha Male Bad Boy. No, he's not some UFC fighter, rock musician, or strip club bouncer. He's never ridden a motorcyle and he doesn't even have a single tattoo. He wears a suit every day to his 9-to-5 office job.





But when he interacts with women, he gives off a total Bad Boy vibe. This means he is flirty, sexual and masculine - and he also acts like he is HARD to impress.





I was hanging out with him at a club last night. He said to a girl...





"I hope your boyfriend isn't here, because I'm totally going to flirt with you right now. How can I not, when you're wearing a dress like that?"





He delivered this opener with a confident smile and the right body language. He then transitioned into the conversation with no delay (this is all explained in our "How To Approach Women" book) and started moving things in the right direction.





He used some Mack Tactics techniques to build up her curiosity and attraction, and then he said to her:





"You're so cool, it's too bad that it would never work out between us. You're nothing like the girls I usually date."





Then he immediately changed the subject. He didn't give her any further explanation - which messed with her head and made her want to PROVE her sexiness!





A short time later he started telling her about how he's a big fan of getting massages. He said to her, "If you know how to give amazing massages, this MIGHT work out between us. If not, it's ok, I can be your wingman tonight and help you meet someone."





(This is a fun game to play with a girl. Tell her you're going to be HER wingman! Then point out some guys in the room that you know she will TOTALLY NOT be into, and offer to introduce her...she will laugh and squirm...then keep teasing her and flirting.)





Then he used another classic "Bad Boy" tactic on her: he WALKED AWAY.





Yup! He told her he had to go see some friends and that he'd be back in a little while. Then he walked away and hung out with me and my buddies for 10 minutes. We were all joking around and having a good time, and the whole time, the girl was WATCHING him and WAITING for him to come back and keep talking to her!





Eventually, he did...and a short time after that, he used a "Deal Closer" tactic to extract her from the club and take her back to his place.





The *trick* to getting really good with women is to add a "Bad Boy Edge" to your personality that conveys confidence and masculinity.





I'm not saying you need to act like a jerk, or disrespect women. Women are not "into" those qualities. Rather, they will ACCEPT these qualities from a Bad Boy who she is strongly attracted to.





You can be the best of both worlds: a laidback, polite, respectful guy who also has the BAD BOY EDGE that makes women go wild.





You'll find the secrets in our Bad Boy Seduction program:





Bad Boy Seduction - Click Here To Get The Edge!





Your Wingman,





Dean Cortez